Blog: Messy Messy Messy: Upchuck Bucks and Parental Penalties, Restaurants are serving up Extra Fees for Bad Behavior
Tamiko Lloyd Tamiko Lloyd

Blog: Messy Messy Messy: Upchuck Bucks and Parental Penalties, Restaurants are serving up Extra Fees for Bad Behavior

In our upcoming podcast episode, I’m diving into the sizzling world of restaurant fees that have left many diners scratching their heads. From overindulgent brunch-goers facing the dreaded "vomit fee" to parents grappling with a "bad parenting fee," the dining experience is evolving.

Join us in our next podcast episode as we delve into these eyebrow-raising restaurant fees, discuss the ethics behind them, and debate whether they are justified. Whether you're a brunch enthusiast or have had to deal with unruly kids, the conversation is bound to intrigue you. Don't miss this upcoming episode. Stay tuned!

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Blog: My Adult Children Never Call or Visit Me
Tamiko Lloyd Tamiko Lloyd

Blog: My Adult Children Never Call or Visit Me

A recent Dear Abby column, a widowed mother with five adult children wrote about her loneliness and the lack of communication from her children. She believed that her children were not making enough effort to stay in touch, and suggested that a "pill" was the answer to her loneliness. Dear Abby advised the mother to initiate contact with her children and suggested that she should fill her time with activities and volunteer work.

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Episode 47: Nope, Not Today: Seat Swaps and Messy Kid Chaos

Today's episode is all about a common dilemma faced by childfree and solo travelers: should you switch seats on an airplane so a family can sit together?

End of summer travel is in high gear and fights are full, so there’s a chance you’ll hear: can you switch seats so our family can sit together?  Has this ever happened to you?  Recently, people have been going viral for answering no to this question.  But should you ever accommodate a switching seats request.  There are reasons some people don't want to switch seats and immense pressure and guilt-trips often used to convince those of us who say no to switch. We can stand up for ourselves without being rude or unkind, or not.

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Blog: No, you I don’t want to switch seats on this flight so your family can sit together
Tamiko Lloyd Tamiko Lloyd

Blog: No, you I don’t want to switch seats on this flight so your family can sit together

Traveling on an airplane can be stressful enough, but for childfree/solo travelers, the added pressure of being asked to switch seats so a family can sit together can be overwhelming. In episode 47 of the Mom of None podcast, I discuss this common dilemma and explore the reasons why some travelers don't want to switch seats, the pressures and guilt-trips that are often used to convince them, and the ways we can stand up for ourselves without being rude or unkind.

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Blog: Children Under 10 Not Welcome
Tamiko Lloyd Tamiko Lloyd

Blog: Children Under 10 Not Welcome

Recently a restaurant in NJ instituted a new policy to restrict children under 10. Nettie’s House of Spaghetti in Tinton Falls, NJ implemented this policy in March. One of my most popular episodes is Episode 3: Should children be allowed in places traditionally marketed to adults. In that episode I talked about kids at spas, breweries and bars. And the consensus of the childfree community is NO, they should not be in spaces that would be considered adults only. In this instance it’s a restaurant that previously welcomed all children but changed their policy to restrict children under 10. Needless to say, parents were not happy.

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Blog: Is Extended Babysitting a Dealbreaker?
Tamiko Lloyd Tamiko Lloyd

Blog: Is Extended Babysitting a Dealbreaker?

After a hiatus, the Mom of None podcast is back with a brand new season, and in this episode, I talk about a hot topic for childfree couples: babysitting. What happens when one partner agrees to babysit a young family member, and the other sees it as a threat to their decision not to have children?

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Seth Rogen and Lauren Miller are Happily Childfree

Seth Rogen, you know him from The 40 Year Old Virgin, Super Bad, Pineapple Express,This is the End and currently starring in Pam and Tommy on Hulu. He was on the Howard Stern show a few months ago where he spoke about he and his wife Lauren Miller not wanting to have children.

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Disputing the 25 Stupidest Reasons to Have Kids

moms.com has an article about the 25 honest reasons women have kids.  These are some of the dumbest things I’ve ever heard.  So I’ve decided to give you my take on the self righteous, selfish and silly reasons they list in this article. 

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