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Will I Regret Not Having Kids?

As DINKs and SINKs, one of the top questions we are asked is if we will regret not having kids.    My usual retort is do you regret buying those shoes?

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Bias Against Childfree Women at Work

I came across an article from theriveter.com by Jessica Wakeman.  Now I don’t know if Jessica is childfree but she hits all the points about bias against childfree women at work.  

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Why is Mom of None Controversial and Negative?

That’s the phase I get all the time when I tell people about the podcast - wow, that’s controversial! 

Is it though? Why is my choice not to have children the same as putting salt or sugar in your grits.  Now that’s controversial - I’m team salt by the way. 

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DINK Dish with Michael Zadoorian

Last week, I reviewed Michael’s book, The Narcissism of Small Differences which features a DINK couple as the main characters and I’m excited to have him as a guest.

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Book Review: The Narcissism of Small Differences by Michael Zadoorian

A few weeks ago, Michael Zadoorian reached out to me asking if I would review his current book, The Narcissism of Small Differences.  I was so excited!  He said the book was about a couple who were childfree by choice and he thought it would be something my listeners would like. 

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Parents Got More Time Off. Then the Backlash Started and Moms at the US Open

Hey DINKs and SINKS today is a two-fer.  First,  I’ll talk about the September 5th New York Times article titled, Parents Got More Time Off.  Then The Backlash Started.  Then I’ll talk about moms at the US Open. I’m a sports fan and tennis is one of my favorites to watch.  I had hoped to go the US Open this year but thanks to COVID-19, I had to watch from home like everyone else.  

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Labor of Love Update

I’m back!  I found an update of Kristy and Kyle!  Guess what! They broke up.  Hold on while I grab my shocked face. 

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Recap: Labor of Love Finale

Hey everybody!  We made it to the finale and I couldn’t wait to give you my thoughts.  It’s time for Kristy to make the hardest decision of her life.  I kinda have an idea on who she’s going to chose but you never know until you know.  Just from the preview be prepared for a lot of crying!

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Recap: Labor of Love Episode 7

On this week’s episode, Kristy gets to visit the cities of the last three men standing - Kyle in Austin, Marcus (the doctor) in Cincinnati and Stewart in Los Angeles.  Each guy will show Kristy their homes and introduce her to a few friends.  The theme of this episode is AWKWARD!!! As if this show wasn’t awkward enough.  

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Recap: Labor of Love Episode 6

Hey DINKS and SINKs - Welcome back to my recaps of Labor of Love…. We’re getting close to the end of this journey….

We have 5 guys left… how many will go home?  

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Recap: Labor of Love Episodes 4-5

Labor of Love Episode 4 and 5 recaps:

I’m back with my Labor of Love recaps - Dang y’all really want to hear what I have to say and I appreciate it!!  Thank you for continuing to share these episodes with your friends.  

This is a twofer! I’ll be recapping Episodes 4 and 5.  

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Chat with Donna

On today’s episode, I chat with Donna Hendricks, Lifestyle Influencer and Founder of Extra Is My Ordinary.

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Recap: Labor of Love Episode 3

Ok DINKs and SINKS, I’m pushing through on these Labor of Love recaps! See what I did there….LOL.

Last week we said goodbye to Budge and Mario, who will go home this week? The guys get a message to grab a tablet and take a test, you know to gauge their intelligence.

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Recap: Labor of Love Episode 2

Ok, I’m back with my Labor of Love Commentary. Last week on Labor of Love we said goodbye to Tale and Philip. Who will leave on this week’s episode?

When the episode opens with Budge talking about being a conservative man looking for an American girl… you have to think he may be on the chopping block later…

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Recap: Labor of Love Episode 1

The following recap contains spoilers.

I had seen commercials for Fox’s latest reality show but didn’t quite get the concept and thought it was another dating show where they added dates with babies to see what they would look like as a play family. I’m not really into dating reality shows. Project Runway, Making the Cut, The First 48 (morbid, I know!) are more my speed. A listener to the podcast sent me a message to watch this show and maybe do some recaps. I thought ok, let me watch the first episode and see what it’s about. Well I guess I was sorta right about the premise of the show but basically Kristy is looking for a baby daddy. We live in a sad state where men and women are willing to go on television to artificially fulfill this societal norm.

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SINK SitDown with Evie

On today’s episode I speak with Evie. She’s a first grade inclusion special education teacher in New Jersey and of course she’s childfree. We talk about what it’s like to teach during quarantine without the added burden of homeschooling her own children as well as the Kid Free Five!

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